I liked both styles. The bottom style fits Maddy a little bit better but I love the skirt style in the top ones.
We were a little bit limited in style choices because Maddy is sooooo petite. We had to find styles that were cut slightly smaller because the smallest size was a 2 and Maddy is thin enough to be in an INFANT size. Of course, we needed the toddler sized dresses because we wanted to match with Gwen and she's a size 3 or 4.
The girls liked trying on the dresses. They've never shown much interest in being "pretty" so I wasn't sure I could motivate them to be flower girls for that reason. But it looks like I can! It's a relief because you really do need to find some motivation for anything you want a 3 year old to do! I just hope they'll actually walk down the aisle!
I have a friend who just got married last weekend and had twin flower girls who are nearly 3 years old. One of them cried through the whole ceremony and one of her Bridesmaids had to hold her. All the guests though it was precious and many said it "made" the whole ceremony (I'm not so sure of that!). This is good to know since one (or both) of the girls might not follow instructions perfectly and might decide to stop, mid aisle, and get really shy (or pick their nose) for a few seconds before sprinting to the altar to hug Daddy's leg. Hopefully that'll be okay with the bride and groom!